titanic

last night carolyn and i went to signature theatre to watch the show titanic. it was amazing. the intensity of the characters in their moments knowing death was coming… speechless. the only negative i have about the show was this one lady whose voice was just over the top compared to the other cast. her […]

kid free weekend (continued)

i struggle with depression. there. i said it. out loud and shit. i mean i’m not all the time, but my high and lows tend to flow like a microwave instead of a radio wave. i’m not in the minority. i’m sure there are plenty of others in the world that have the same, if […]

kid free weekend

when you’re a family that has younger kids, these kid free weekends don’t come around often. meticulous planning and negotiations come into play to make it happen, then a whole other round of play emerges. tl;dr kids gone, parents discuss sex. sex as married adults feels like an ongoing negotiation of do for me, so i […]

hey, stranger…

i know it’s been a couple days but honestly… wtf. stop your bitching. sunday was a pretty lax day. we didn’t do much except hang at mitchell’s for nfl championship action. the packers lost to the falcons and patriots trounced the steelers. super bowl LI looks to be semi exciting. obviously i want the falcons […]

3 hours and $1,600 later…

  fuck yesterday… it started off fine. carolyn and i went to dominion valley to check out their clubhouse and facilities. it was fine. the gm now was the golf pro at pleasant valley so that was a nice blast from the past. we ended up not really liking all the nickel and dime fees. […]

lessons learned

sometimes i try to be the better person, to take the high road, overall, to be patient. it doesn’t happen all the time, but when i do lose my patience, it’s never a good thing. this came up last night when the family was at the table trying to spend some qt together, but one […]

apples… trees…

why does the apple fall so close to the tree? this has me worried with alex, but it also explains so many things with the rest of the family. sometimes, why can’t… i’m just angry and i need to stop. i’ve been trying to cut an attitude in makenna. she immediately says no or comes […]

i’m calling it…

there’s no way i can manage to write something every day. i mean, i suppose i could but it could be as inane as the title of this blog. i could talk about joining a club again. we have an appointment at dominion valley this friday. i’m guessing we’ll make a decision this weekend. also […]

playoffs??

so yesterday’s playoff game between green bay and dallas was the most intense game in the playoffs thus far. what an incredible come from behind game dallas played. they tied it up in the last minute or so but then the packers marched down the field and, with 3 seconds left, put up the game […]